It's okay to give up....... on people
There is only so much you can do to help others before they start to wear you down. They probably don't mean to, but they will. My theory has become this... Don't try and fix something that may not be broken. If people are comfortable in their lives then leave them alone. If people are showing signs up help, then see what you can do. Give it a couple to tries. But if doesn't work after that, go about your life. The most important person in your life should be yourself. Now that doesn't mean there shouldn't be times you put others ahead of yourself. Those times will always be around the corner, but you need to know when to do it, and who to do it with. Ultimately the person you look out for the most though is you. I think today I'm using this advice to avoid anymore annoyances in my life. Time to surround myself with people I want to put ahead of myself.